The strict unwritten rules guests must follow at royal state banquets
There are always unspoken rules when it comes to royal etiquette and that also extends to state banquets. Discover what you must and mustn't do when attending
One of the highlights of any state visit is the extravagant state banquet, where royals dress in their finest, including tiaras, and wow their visitors.
However, it's not just royals who attend these events; prominent figures from the worlds of business, entertainment and politics are also in attendance.
You might think one of the best things about heading to a state banquet is mingling with the other guests ahead of the meal, but once you enter the dining hall, taking your time to talk to the other guests is actually considered quite rude. You're expected to take your seat immediately, after which further rules dictate with whom you may talk.
Conversation is only held between guests sitting with each other
No talking across the table
Once you're seated, you had better hope whoever you're sitting with can hold an interesting conversation. Guests are only allowed to talk to people who are sitting directly adjacent to them, hence why the monarch is always seated next to the guest of honour. Talking across the table is the height of rudeness.
Ahead of the state banquet, certain guests will have the privilege of being presented to the royals. Guests are, of course, expected to bow or curtsy, but they should also be empty-handed when meeting the royals, so no half-finished glasses of champagne.
While many of us at social events may clink our glasses before drinking, this shouldn't be done at a state banquet. Instead, just raise the glass so you acknowledge the other guests.
When the delicious meal is served, your first instinct might be to jump straight in, but you're actually not allowed to start eating until the monarch has begun their meal. Similarly, guests should stop eating as soon as the monarch has finished. The late Queen Elizabeth was reportedly a fast eater, so guests needed to be equally speedy.
You might want to moderate your drinking at a state banquet, as once you're seated, you're not allowed to get up to go to the toilet for the entirety of the meal. The only exception to this is in the case of pregnant women, but when they leave, they must cross their utensils on their plate so that staff know that they have not yet finished their meal.
Sometimes you can't wait to leave a dinner party, but when you're hosted by the monarch, you're staying for a while. Unless there are major extenuating circumstances, guests aren't allowed to leave until the royals have departed.
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