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Inside Anderson Cooper's 'unconventional' decision to live with ex Benjamin Maisani to co-parent two sons

The CNN anchor and his ex split in 2018, but live together and are raising sons Wyatt and Sebastian


Benjamin Maisani and Anderson Cooper attend Elton John AIDS Foundation's 14th Annual Benefit at Cipriani Wall Street on November 2, 2015 in New York City
Beatriz Colon
Beatriz Colon - New York
Online News WriterNew York
On 4 October 2023
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There aren't many people who would opt to live with their ex-boyfriend, but for Anderson Cooper and Benjamin Maisani, that's what works best for them and their kids.

The former couple were together for almost ten years before they split in early 2018. But in 2020, the two – still very close platonic friends but no longer romantically attached – decided to become fathers together for the first time.

The pair first became dads in April 2020 when they welcomed son Wyatt Morgan, and they later welcomed another son, Sebastian Luke in February 2022; both boys were born via surrogacy.

WATCH: Anderson Cooper opens up about baby son Wyatt

Anderson, 56, and Benjamin, 50, though they aren't romantically involved any longer, live together with their boys in New York City, and they also own a weekend vacation home in Connecticut.

During an interview with People last month, the veteran CNN anchor described co-parenting with Benjamin as "very natural," and explained: "I work nights, and so he's there at night. And we both wake up right before they wake up, get them their milk and spend the first couple of hours of the day just us with them."

Plus, he revealed: "Benjamin speaks French to them," joking: "I have no idea what they're saying. I think they're plotting against me."

Anderson Cooper and Benjamin Maisani attend the 2015 amfAR Inspiration Gala  after party at Boom Boom Room on June 16, 2015 in New York City© Getty
Anderson and Benjamin split in 2018

Further detailing their living arrangement during another recent interview with Howard Stern, the host couldn't help but note how "unconventional" it is, however Anderson argued: "We're family and we love these kids, and we're adults."

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Then Howard asked the question that might have been on everyone's minds: "And when you bring home a date?" however the father-of-two simply confessed: "I'm not dating."

The co-parenting couple with their sons lying in a garden© Anderson Cooper on Instagram
The co-parenting former couple with their sons in 2022

He further explained: "I've got two kids who I can't imagine not spending every minute with, and I'm working all the time," maintaining: "I'm happy, I'm happy right now… It's the best thing ever."

Wyatt and Sebastian sat in a living room© Anderson Cooper on Instagram
Wyatt and Sebastian are too cute for words

During his People interview, Anderson couldn't help but gush about his routine with his boys, saying: "I love getting them ready for their afternoon nap and sitting with them and reading and then having them fall asleep in my arms. There's nothing better."

MORE: Anderson Cooper emotionally opens up about the deaths of brother and father

Wyatt and Sebastian sat at the foot of a Christmas tree along with several wrapped presents© Instagram
The boys live between NYC and Connecticut

"This is the best time in my life… There is no doubt about it," he also declared, and noted: "Just to see their relationship, it's incredible.

"I recently found wooden blocks that my brother [Carter] and I played with. We drew robots on them and stuff. And so now to see Wyatt playing with those and building things, it's crazy."

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