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Teddi Mellencamp arrives at EA Sports presents The Madden Bowl at Orpheum Theater on February 07, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana© Getty Images

RHOBH star Teddi Mellencamp reveals famous father's wish amid heartbreaking stage 4 cancer

 Teddi has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer

Rebecca Lewis
Rebecca Lewis - Los Angeles
Los Angeles correspondentLos Angeles
April 10, 2025
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Teddi Mellencamp is facing her cancer journey with humor and heart.

The 43-year-old, who has been diagnosed with stage four cancer, revealed on her podcast that her famous father, musician John Cougar Mellencamp, has requested that she be buried in the family's mausoleum, but she joked that the headstone will read: "Hot girls never die."

"Yesterday my dad called 11 times in a row. Finally, I answer. I'm like, 'I'm in the bath. Let me live a little!' He goes: 'I just want to make sure you’re going to be in our group family mausoleum,'" the Real Housewives star recalled on her podcast Two T’s In A Pod.

John Mellencamp, Teddi Mellencamp pose for pictures© Charles Sykes/Bravo via Getty Im
John and daughter Teddi Mellencamp are close

In response Teddi asked if there would also be room for her three children – Slate, 12, Cruz, ten, and five-year-old Dove, whom she shares with her estranged husband Edwin Arroyave  – and her father told her that there would be space for the "top five" and then "little areas around it, and then that's where everyone's going to get buried".

"You're doing your will right now, so you may as well put it in there," he also told her.

John Cougar Mellencamp (RIGHT)poses with his daughters (left to right) Michele, Teddi Jo, and Justice, and his wife, Victoria (C)© Corbis via Getty Images
John Cougar Mellencamp (right) poses with his daughters (left to right) Michele, Teddi, and Justice, and his wife, Victoria (C)

Teddi hosts the podcast with Tamra Judge, and she told her former Real Housewife star that she would have to travel to Indiana, where the mausoleum is, to visit her grave.

In early March, Teddi revealed that five more tumors had been discovered in her body, weeks after she underwent brain cancer surgery.

Teddi Mellencamp poses for a selfie in her blonde wig© Teddi Mellencamp
Teddi poses for a selfie in her blonde wig

"Update: I have multiple tumors in my brain that weren’t able to be removed via surgery. I also have 2 tumors in my lung. These are all metastases of my melanoma," she shared on Instagram on Thursday March 6.

"The doctors are hopeful that immunotherapy will effectively treat them," she continued, sharing that she is "feeling positive" and that she "will win this battle".

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She received plenty of support from friends and former Bravo stars including Kyle Richards, and Dorit Kimsley.

The Bravo alum has been battling skin cancer since 2022. She was diagnosed with brain tumors in mid-February 2025, after she complained of debilitating headaches.

"For the last several weeks I've been dealing with severe and debilitating headaches," Teddi said at the time.

"Yesterday the pain was unbearable and required hospitalization. After a CT scan and MRI, doctors found multiple tumors on my brain, which they believe have been growing for at least six months."

"I am blessed to be surrounded by my children, family, friends, doctors, nurses and surgeons who are doing everything possible to get me back into better health," she continued. 

In early April, Teddi shared in a video that "stage 4 cancer can be scary".

Edwin Arroyave (2L) and Teddi with their three children in 2022© Getty Images
Edwin Arroyave (2L) and Teddi with their three children in 2022

"Some days I feel really, really strong and some days I feel really, really sad and alone. And I think that’s a normal part of what any of us are going through, and that’s okay," Teddi shared.

She is undergoing immunotherapy and radiation.  

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