Meet Patriots' coach Mike Vrabel wife of 26 years and their two sons


The former football player has been married to his college sweetheart Jen Vrabel since 1999, and they share two sons


 Head coach Mike Vrabel of the New England Patriots looks on prior to the start of Super Bowl LX against the Seattle Seahawks at Levi's Stadium on February 08, 2026 in Santa Clara, California© Getty Images
Beatriz Colon
Beatriz ColonNew York Writer - New York
April 8, 2026
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Though recent photos may have had some fooled, Mike Vrabel has been married for decades.

On Tuesday, April 7, photos surfaced of the New England Patriots' coach sharing a hug, some hand holding, and pool side lounging with NFL reporter Dianna Russini, who like him is also married.

Both were quick to refute any salacious speculation about the photo, with the reporter's employer The Athletic also supporting her. "These photos show a completely innocent interaction and any suggestion otherwise is laughable," Mike said in a statement to Page Six. "This doesn't deserve any further response."

Owner Robert Kraft and his wife Dana Blumberg pose for a photograph with Mike Vrabel and his wife Jen Vrabel as Vrabel is announced as head coach of the New England Patriots during a press conference at Gillette Stadium on January 13, 2025 in Foxborough, Massachusetts© Getty Images
Mike and Jen with owner Robert Kraft and his wife

Meanwhile Dianna, who is married to Shake Shack executive Kevin Goldschmidt, with whom she shares two kids, shared: "The photos don't represent the group of six people who were hanging out during the day," adding: "Like most journalists in the NFL, reporters interact with sources away from stadiums and other venues."

Scroll below for all we know about Mike's family life.

Jen and Mike's love story

Jen and Mike are college sweethearts. They both attended Ohio State University, where Jen studied dental hygiene and played volleyball, graduating in 1998. The year prior, Mike had already been drafted to the Pittsburgh Steelers, in the 1997 draft.

Mike Vrabel of the New England Patriots and his wife Jen speak with New York Giants offensive coordinator Tim Kelly in warm up before a game between the New England Patriots and the New York Giants on December 1, 2025, at Gillette Stadium in Foxborough, Massachusetts© Getty Images
Jen on the sideline with Mike in 2025

According to a 2018 interview with The Tennessean, Jen was the first to notice Mike, in their freshman lecture class on time management, and that she "found him funny enough to ask the professor for his phone number," and they "quickly became inseparable."

They tied the knot a year after Jen's graduation, in 1999. For their 25th anniversary in 2024, they celebrated with a 10-day vacation in Italy, during the Cleveland Browns' bye-week that year.

uper Bowl XXXVIII, Closeup of New England Patriots Mike Vrabel and son Tyler victorious after game vs Carolina Panthers, Houston, TX 2/1/2004© Getty Images
Mike while playing for the Patriots in 2004 with his oldest son

The couple has two sons

Jen and Mike first became parents a year after their wedding, when they welcomed son Tyler in June 2000. They expanded their family just one year later, welcoming son Carter in November 2001. 

Mike, who at the time of his second son's birth played for the New England Patriots, admitted two decades after Carter's arrival that he missed the special moment. Speaking in a press conference when he joined the Tennessee Titans as their head coach, he first said: "It's not easy supporting boys that love football and dads that coach and play football. They've been around the NFL locker room since they've been born."

He then revealed: "I'm not proud to say this, but I'm just going to tell you about my wife. She gave birth to Carter, I missed it, I was at practice, she was in Ohio. He came early, he flipped, they had to take her. I showed up four hours late because I was playing football and she was having a baby."

ead coach Mike Vrabel of the Tennessee Titans (right) walks on the field with his son Carter Vrabel before the game against the Indianapolis Colts at Lucas Oil Stadium on December 1, 2019 in Indianapolis, Indiana© Getty Images
With his youngest in 2019

The doting dad went on to maintain his gratitude and love for his wife, telling reporters: "I love her to death. She's been through a lot and she understands this league. She challenged me to get into the NFL after spending some time at Ohio State."

Tyler, after graduating from Boston College, where he played football, was on the Atlanta Falcons' practice squad, and is now assistant coach for his alma mater's football team, while his younger brother played baseball at Wabash Valley College, and later at Volunteer State Community College.

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