Judi Dench's private life with partner David Mills - and the reason why they won't marry


The Oscar-winning actress is in a relationship with conservationist David Mills, whom she met in 2010


Judi Dench in a grey coat and scarf© UK Press via Getty Images
Nicky Morris
Nicky MorrisActing TV and Film Editor
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Dame Judi Dench is back on our TV screens with her hit Sky show, Tea with Judi Dench. The Oscar-winning actress welcomes fellow national treasure, Sir Ian McKellen, into her home for a candid conversation about their extraordinary lives and careers in the new episode, which airs on Sky Arts on 31 August. 

Judi is known and loved for her illustrious and long-standing acting career, including her roles in films such as James Bond, Notes on a Scandal, Philomena and Shakespeare in Love, as well as her extensive career on-stage with the prestigious Royal Shakespeare Company.

Judi Dench and Ian McKellen sitting at a table with mugs, smiling in a garden.
Dame Judi Dench welcomes Sir Ian McKellen to her home in Tea with Judi Dench

But how much do you know about her life away from the cameras? Find out all you need to know about Judi's home life with her partner, David Mills. 

Who is Judi Dench's partner, David Mills? 

Since 2010, Judi has been in a relationship with conservationist David Mills. 

David Mills in a suit and Dame Judi Dench in a black dress outside© Getty
David Mills and Dame Judi Dench began dating in 2010
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David, who is almost ten years Judi's junior, began his career as a dairy farmer with an award-winning Venn herd of pedigree Jersey cows. In 1994, he sold his herd and decided to specialise in British wildlife. Three years later, he founded the British Wildlife Centre, which is home to an array of wildlife and holds the title of the UK's biggest red squirrel breeder.

In 2016, David was awarded an MBE for his services to wildlife conservation.

David and Judi first crossed paths when he invited her to his wildlife centre to open a squirrel enclosure in 2010.

Why Judi Dench and David Mills won't marry

Even after more than 25 years together, the couple aren't planning on walking down the aisle anytime soon. 

Dame Judi Dench in white and David Mills in a black suit© Getty
The couple don't plan on tying the knot

"We talked about [marriage] but I think we are far better off as we are as we have got two separate houses. And we are either in one or the other and we are four miles apart," David told Good Housekeeping Magazine.

Judi added: "He is not going to propose. No, no, no, no, no. Let's just pull ourselves together and be our age!" 

The actress also said that she prefers to refer to her other half as 'chap' instead of 'partner'. 

David Mills and Judi Dench attend day four of Royal Ascot 2023© Karwai Tang, Getty
David and Judi first met when he invited her to his wildlife centre to open a squirrel enclosure in 2010

"I don't know what the word is because I don't like the word 'partner,'" she said. "Partner is something to do with dancing. Partner - horrible word. Friend? No. Boyfriend? No. Chap? Will chap do?"

Judi Dench's late husband

Long before her relationship with David, Judi was married to fellow actor Michael Williams. The couple tied the knot in 1971 and welcomed their daughter, Tara Cressida Frances 'Flinty' Williams. 

They were together for 30 years before Michael died of lung cancer in 2001.

Judi Dench on her wedding day with Michael Williams© Getty
The actress married Michael Williams in 1971

During an appearance on David Tennant's podcast in 2020, Judi spoke candidly about her grief after losing her husband. 

When asked how she learned to cope without him, Judi said: "I don't know. I don't know. Perhaps I've never done that, quite. Although I have met David, who runs the British Wildlife Centre. And he's about four miles away, and that's just lovely because we laugh about the same things. But I suspect I shall never ever get over Mikey."

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