8 times Princess Diana broke royal protocol – including iconic moment people still remember today


The late Princess of Wales was known for her unorthodox approach to royal life, something which won her legions of fans with some of her moments still being talked about


Princess Diana sitting down © Getty Images
Matthew Moore
Matthew MooreSenior Evening Writer
Updated: 4 days ago

If there was one royal who threw out the rulebook, it was Princess Diana. With the late royal often seen to do things her own way, giving her the 'People's Princess' moniker and making her one of the most cherished royals ever. 

There are many unspoken royal protocols to navigate, governing everything from how to properly hold a teacup and propose to a partner, to the exact outfits permitted on official engagements.

Diana, Princess of Wales  during a visit to RAF Wittering in Cambridgeshire, 25th October 1989. She is wearing a red suit by Catherine Walker. Diana is the Honorary Air Commodore of the station.© Getty Images
Princess Diana was a rule breaker

While the late Princess of Wales did not ditch every royal custom, she frequently strayed from traditional protocol. This included her choices regarding where her children were born, the outfits she wore on public duties, and the charitable causes she championed. 

Here's the best times that Diana broke the rules…

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Princess Diana with a sapphire engagement ring© Getty Images

Choosing her engagement ring

Diana was breaking the rules before she even joined the royal family, including the choice of her engagement ring. In the past, engagement rings were custom-made and are passed down through the family. Diana's gorgeous ring features a stunning sapphire, which reportedly reminded the late royal of her mother's own band.

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Princess Diana and King Charles holding a baby Prince William outside of a hospital© Getty Images

Where she gave birth

Royal births were usually a home affair, with King Charles and his siblings all being born in royal residences. However, when it came to giving birth to Prince William and Prince Harry, Diana gave birth in the Lindo Wing at St Mary's Hospital, breaking centuries of tradition.

Her decision has caught on, with other royals now giving birth in a hospital. All three of William and Kate Middleton's children were born in the same wing that the heir to the throne was.

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Princess Diana with a young Prince Harry and Prince William in school uniform© Tim Graham Photo Library via Get

Where her children went to school

It used to be that royal children were educated behind closed doors with private tutors, but this is another area where Diana tore up the rulebook. William became the first royal in history to be entirely educated in the public school sector, something that he has also embraced with his own children.

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Princess Diana playing with Prince Harry and Prince William with Harry going down a slide© Tim Graham Photo Library via Get

No royal nanny

Diana broke plenty of rules when it came to her own children, and one of which was that she refused to have a nanny raising them. As a previous nursery worker, Diana was equipped with all the skills she needed, and she was certainly a hands-on mum, spending plenty of time with her two children.

Lana Marks, an old friend of Diana, once noted: "She would drop everything when the boys came home from school. It didn't matter which head of state she had to see or what gala she had to attend. Those were secondary."

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Princess Diana shaking hands in a shoulderless dress© Getty Images

Royal dresses

One of the reasons that many continue to love Princess Diana was her impeccable fashion sense. However, many of her looks violated the royal fashion code. The royal was often glimpsed in backless or strapless dresses, and while she was no longer a royal at the time, no one could ever forget her iconic 'revenge' dress.

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Princess Diana in a white outfit with no gloves© Getty Images

Glove decision

Although it's a fashion rule that has been relaxed in recent years, at the time Diana was a royal, it was expected that royal ladies would wear gloves while out on engagements to prevent the spread of germs. But Diana was often spotted with her bare hands when interacting with members of the public.

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Princess Diana giving a present to a man with AIDS in a hospice© Tim Graham Photo Library via Get

Royal causes

Like many royals, charity work was a key part of Diana's duties; however, some of the causes that she chose to champion weren't expected for a royal at the time. In 1987, the royal opened London Middlesex Hospital's dedicated HIV and AIDS ward, shaking hands with the patients, at a time when people thought the illness could be transmitted by skin contact.

According to Diana's former police protection officer, Ken Wharfe, the late royal was once confronted over her activism. "The Princess would go to see the Queen on a number of occasions. [Once] she returned to the car distressed. I asked 'What's the matter?' and she said 'The queen doesn't like me getting involved with AIDS... [and said] 'why don't you get involved with something more pleasant?'" he explained.

"I think Diana was very angry and annoyed the Queen could not see what she was doing. She felt a member of the Royal Family should be involved with campaigns to find a cure for AIDS."

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Princess Diana wearing blue eyeliner © Tim Graham Photo Library via Get

Blue makeup

Princess Diana was known for her iconic blue eyeliner, which pushed the traditional boundaries of royal beauty standards. The striking shade brought out her eyes, but she eventually stopped wearing it.

Mary Greenwell, Diana's makeup artist, revealed in an interview with Yahoo! that she convinced the royal to ditch the electric hue: "I think beiges and browns are just so much prettier. Simple as that.”

Even without the bright blue, Diana's makeup remained subtle and natural, though she continued to wear plenty of mascara to define her eyes.

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