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Princess Martha Louise reveals she was 'completely devastated' as she opens up about ex-husband's death

The eldest child of King Harald was married to Ari Behn between 2002 and 2017

Matthew Moore
Senior Evening Writer
May 3, 2025
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While Princess Martha Louise is now happily married to Shaman Durek Verrett, the Norwegian royal was previously married to author Ari Behn.

The former couple married in 2002, with Ari choosing to remain as a private citizen instead of taking on a royal title. The couple welcomed three children, Maud, Leah and Emma, during their marriage, but in 2016 it was confirmed that the pair had started divorce proceedings; the divorce was finalised the following year.

Ari was open about his struggles with his mental health, explaining that he was chronically depressed in a 2009 interview. On 25 December 2019, he died by suicide.

Princess Martha Louise with Ari Behn at a wedding© AFP via Getty Images
The former couple married in 2002

Speaking on the Who's Your Daddy podcast with Sebastian Solberg, Martha Louise opened up about Ari's passing.

"I didn't realise it was so physically demanding," she explained. "I felt like I'd been running a marathon every day, and at the same time, I couldn't sleep, eat, or anything like that. I was exhausted and in a kind of brain fog."

Princess Martha Louise with Ari Behn© UK Press via Getty Images
Martha Louise spoke about the impact Ari's death had on her

The royal explained that she had to find an inner strength in order to support her three daughters. After six months, she allowed her emotions to hit her, saying: "After seeing the children start to get back on their feet, after six months, I went into a downward spiral. Really depressed."

The mother-of-three said she was "completely devastated" by the news and said she wasn't able "to get out of bed".

New marriage

Martha Louise has managed to find love again, with the Norwegian princess marrying Shaman Durek Verrett last year in a wedding exclusively covered by HELLO!.

During a speech at the wedding, Durek paid tribute to Martha's daughters, saying: "It's a gift to have Märtha's girls in my life."

Martha Louise looking at her husband Durek Verrett on their wedding day© Shutterstock
The couple married last year

Maud played a special part in the celebrations, with the royal's eldest daughter giving her away during the romantic ceremony.

Speaking to us about the celebrations Märtha said: "It was lovely to be together with all our friends and family."

Princess Martha Louise of Norway and Durek Verrett kiss as they arrive at their wedding party at Hotel Union in Geiranger© Getty
The wedding was exclusively covered by HELLO!

Durek said: "There are people celebrating our wedding, not just here but all over the world. Although some people are unhappy about it, because of my race and Märtha's position as a royal, other people believe it marks a new beginning for the planet."

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