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King Charles' 'improper' request Princess Diana refused before engagement

The monarch announced his engagement to his late ex-wife in 1981

Nichola Murphy
Deputy Lifestyle Editor
April 29, 2025
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Royal romances often don't come to light until weeks or months later, with the likes of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle and Princess Diana and King Charles keeping their early relationships away from the public eye.

The latter met in 1977 when Charles was visiting Diana's older sister Lady Sarah (his then-girlfriend) at the Spencer estate, Althorp House. Charles reportedly saw his future bride as a "jolly" girl before romance blossomed several years later in 1980. 

Before the couple announced their engagement in February 1981, they had reportedly only met 13 times – and one of those saw Charles make a request that Diana found "rather improper."

The late Queen Elizabeth II's son was already looking to the future with his then-girlfriend, taking her on a tour of his beloved home, Highgrove House, which he purchased in 1980. 

Princess Diana always put her family first, here pictured with her husband and sons© Getty
Princess Diana reportedly thought Charles' Highgrove request was "rather improper"

"During that first weekend, Prince Charles showed Diana around Highgrove, the 353-acre Gloucestershire home he had bought in July – the same month he had started to woo her," wrote Andrew Morton in his biography, Diana: Her True Story — In Her Own Words, which was written with Diana's cooperation.

Top 5 royal proposals 

Prince William and Kate Middleton attend the Commonwealth Day Service of Celebration © Getty

1. Prince William and Princess Kate

Prince William proposed in a quiet moment away from the paparazzi, while they were staying in the foothills of Mount Kenya with friends. The couple announced their proposal on 16th November, 2010. 

2. Meghan Markle and Prince Harry

Prince Harry popped the question in the kitchen of Nottingham Cottage in Kensington Palace after the pair had enjoyed a home-cooked roast. 

3. Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip

While walking in the grounds of Balmoral Castle, Prince Philip proposed in the summer of 1946. The engagement news was kept secret till after the Queen's 21st birthday. 

4. Princess Eugenie and Jack Brooksbank

Jack proposed on New Year's Day 2018 on their trip to Nicaragua. Princess Eugenie described it as the ''perfect" moment as they were surrounded by beautiful landscape. 

5. Edward VIII and Wallis Simpson

When Edward VIII proposed to American socialite and divorcee, Wallis Simpson, in 1936, it caused a royal crisis and the abdication of the monarch. He asked for her hand in marriage at Slogarie House in Mossdale in a secret garden during a party. 

"As he took her on a guided tour of the eight-bedroom mansion, the Prince asked her to organize the interior decoration. He liked her taste, though she felt that it was a 'most improper' suggestion as they were not even engaged."

Princess Diana in blue and Prince Charles in a suit© Tim Graham
Charles and Diana got engaged in 1981

Charles and Diana got married on 29 July 1981 at St Paul's Cathedral, before moving into Highgrove in the Gloucestershire countryside. It is here that their sons Prince William, born in 1982, and Prince Harry, born in 1984, spent many of their childhood years. 

Highgrove interiors

The interiors have only rarely been revealed by the royals, since it is a private residence not open to the public.

Shortly before Charles moved into the property, a photo of one of the living rooms was released. It revealed a floral sofa with matching curtains, several separate armchairs, a wooden chest of drawers and floral desk lamps.

Charles At Home In Highgrove in August 1982 pictured sitting on his sofa© Tim Graham
The monarch showed off his living room in 1982

In 1982, once Prince Charles and Princess Diana had moved in, a coloured photo revealed how the couple put their personal stamp on one of the living rooms. Charles sat on a cream sofa with green and blue patterned cushions, next to a dark chestnut wood side table with framed photos on top.

Princes William and Harry wearing the uniform of the Parachute Regiment of the British Army in the garden of Highgrove House in Gloucestershire, 18th July 1986. They are accompanied by their mother, Diana, Princess of Wales © Tim Graham
Diana was pictured playing with her children in the garden

HELLO!'s Homes Editor Rachel Avery explained: "With royal homes, the interiors get tweaked over the years but the essence of it remains the same with beloved antique furniture and traditional decor. Highgrove House is a private home and the glimpses inside we’ve had over the years show it is more relaxed than other residences such as Buckingham Palace and Windsor Castle. It’s charming and homely which is perhaps why the King loves it so much." 

Meanwhile, several pictures show Charles and Diana playing with their sons in the gardens, including on a children's climbing frame and slide.

Garden passion

Highgrove House exterior© Getty
Prince Charles purchased Highgrove House in Gloucestershire in 1980

Guests can visit the stunning gardens, Charles' passion project he spent years investing in, over the summer months.

The website explains: "When His Majesty first arrived, Highgrove possessed little more than a neglected kitchen garden, an overgrown copse, some pastureland and a few hollow oaks.

King Charles weeding© Getty
King Charles has plowed his care for the environment into Highgrove gardens

"Today, after the hard work of many people, an interlinked series of gardens now unfolds in a succession of personal and inspiring tableaux, each reflecting HM The King's interests and enthusiasms. Highgrove now welcomes up to 40,000 visitors a year.

"Above all, Highgrove is the family home of Their Majesties King Charles III and Queen Camilla."

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