The 3-Letter word behind Prince Harry and Prince William's rift


While Prince William and Prince Harry still are not on talking terms, this incident in 2024 deepened their rift even further


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Edward Lauder
Edward LauderSenior online reporter
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Tensions between Prince Harry and Prince William are yet to be resolved six years after the Duke and Duchess of Sussex left the UK for a life in California.

While their family rift escalated after Harry and Meghan Markle aired private family grievances in a series of public interviews and his bombshell tell-all memoir, Spare, in 2024,  their feud deepened after a subtle but significant gesture from Meghan. The issue centred around the use of the three-letter style: "HRH".

The initials stand for "His/Her Royal Highness" and are typically used by senior working royals. Meghan and Harry agreed not to use the style in 2020 when they stepped back from their official roles.

The Sandringham agreement laid it out clearly

The use of "HRH" was addressed as part of the official Sandringham agreement, negotiated between the late Queen Elizabeth II, then-Prince Charles, and the Sussexes.

Elizabeth II waves, flanked by Charles, Prince of Wales, Prince Harry, Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, and two young girls.© WireImage
The agreement was set out by the Queen, King Charles and the Sussexes

Under the terms of the deal, Harry and Meghan would retain their Duke and Duchess of Sussex titles, but would no longer use their "HRH" styles in any active capacity.

A statement on their website at the time read: "The Duke and Duchess of Sussex will not use their HRH titles as they are no longer working members of the Royal Family."

The controversy began with a gift tag

Earlier this year, businesswoman Jamie Kern Lima, a close friend of Meghan, posted a photo on Instagram of a gift basket. The tag attached to the package was signed from "HRH The Duchess of Sussex".

The basket reportedly included items from Meghan’s own product line, which features fruit preserves and edible flower petals. The branding drew immediate attention online.

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While the title "Duchess of Sussex" remains appropriate, the use of "HRH" was seen by some as a direct breach of the agreement made with the Royal Family.

Royal observers say the timing is significant

Royal commentators have suggested that the use of "HRH" on a branded item may be viewed by Buckingham Palace as more than a careless oversight.

It blurs the line between personal business and royal identity, something that the 2020 agreement had been designed to avoid.

Speaking to French outlet Paris Match, royal expert Stéphane Bern said: "These three letters have reignited tensions at the very heart of the monarchy."

William left feeling "deeply frustrated"

Sources close to Prince William said the move left him "deeply frustrated", as he had believed the boundaries were clearly established when the original agreement was made.

Charles, Prince of Wales, flanked by Prince William and Prince Harry, all in formal attire.© WireImage
Prince William was reportedly 'deeply frustrated'

It’s understood that William, 42, has long felt the use of royal titles for commercial gain is inappropriate, especially when both brothers had agreed to draw a line.

The Palace's reaction

Buckingham Palace did not issue an official statement on the matter. However, it’s widely believed that royal aides have taken note of the incident.

While Harry and Meghan didn't comment on the matter, their previous stance has been that they have a right to use their titles as long as they are not acting in an official royal capacity. The inclusion of "HRH" on a commercial gift, though, complicates that argument.

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