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George Michael talks about death of his first love in last ever interview

The late star spoke candidly about losing his partner to Aids


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Gemma Strong
Online Digital News Director
March 7, 2023
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Channel 4's documentary George Michael: Outed explores the singer's journey after being arrested by police in LA for a 'lewd act' and how his incredible response became a turning point for the LGBT+ community. An inspiration to many, prior to his coming out, George had experienced a particularly dark time in his life, which he later detailed in what would become his final project, George Michael: Freedom – the 90-minute documentary he was working on in the days before he passed on Christmas Day 2016. 

Coincidentally, the holiday season had always been a bittersweet time for him, as he associated Christmas with the death of two of the most important people in his life – his mother and his first love, who died within five years of each other. George opened up about this particularly difficult period in the TV interview, as he recalled how the deaths of Anselmo Feleppa and his mother Lesley Angold Panayiotou took their toll on him.

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Admitting that he felt "picked on by the gods", the former Wham! singer said: "From the day I found out about my partner to the day I can say I was on the mend from my mother, it was just constant fear. It was either fear of death, or fear of the next bereavement. I'd never felt that kind of depression. It was the darkest time."

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George Michael said he felt 'picked on by the gods' in his last ever interview

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Describing Christmas Day 1991 as the "darkest, most frightening time in my life", George recalled waiting in the UK to find out the result of fashion designer Anselmo's Aids diagnosis in LA, all the while keeping their relationship a secret from the public and their families. "I sat at the Christmas table not knowing whether my partner, who the people around the table did not know about … not knowing whether the man I was in love with was terminally ill, therefore not knowing whether I was, potentially, terminally ill," he said.

The singer on stage at Rock in Rio in January 1991

George and Anselmo first met in January 1991 at the Rock in Rio concert, and their connection was instantaneous. "At the front of 160,000 people there was this guy over at the right-hand side of the stage that just fixed me with this look," George revealed, according to the Mirror. "He was so cute. I was so distracted by him, I stayed away from that corner, because otherwise I thought I was going to get really distracted and forget the words. The moment I looked at him I got the feeling he was going to be a part of my life."

Just months into their romance, Anselmo became ill with the flu and was advised to take an HIV test while staying at the star's home in L.A. "I remember looking at the sky and saying, 'Don't you dare do this to me!'" George shared.

During this same time, George's friend Freddie Mercury died of bronchial pneumonia, a complication of his own battle with Aids. "I just wanted to die inside. I was so overwhelmed by singing the songs of this man I had worshipped as a child, who had passed away in the same manner my first living partner was going to experience," George said. Less than one year later, Anselmo passed away, in March 1993.

George Michael pictured with his parents

While the star was still mourning the death of his first love, he endured further heartbreak in 1996 when his mother was told her cancer was terminal, and she was allowed to spend one final Christmas with her family. "I was so spiritually crushed after my mum died. So crushed and felt so bloody picked on by the gods. For all of my adult life she was phenomenal. Terrible, horrible loss," George said of losing his mother to the illness, months later in February 1997. "I'd never felt that kind of depression. It was something different to grief. It was on top of grief, I was grieving for my mother still, but it was something else. It was the darkest time."

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