Exclusive: Giovanna Fletcher's non-negotiable Christmas rule with her 3 kids: 'It isn't a topic to skirt around'


The Happy Mum, Happy Baby podcast host discussed her festive plans with her husband Tom Fletcher and their three children


LONDON, ENGLAND - FEBRUARY 15: Giovanna Fletcher attends the gala performance after party for "Everybody's Talking About Jamie" to celebrate the musical's return to London at @sohoplace on February 15, 2024 in London, England. (Photo by Dave Benett/Getty Images for Nimax)© Dave Benett/Getty Images for Nim
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With the festive season comes shop window displays draped in fairy lights that illuminate luxurious presents for friends and family, and parents helping their children post their wishlists to Santa and his elves. 

Determined not to overlook the real weight of the occasion, Giovanna Fletcher has teamed up with the Baby Bank Alliance to help encourage donations of warm clothing and pre-loved items to be gifted to children over the festive period.

Giovanna Fletcher shoulders up smiling in black dress© Getty
Giovanna Fletcher attends the BAFTA Television Awards with P&O Cruises 2023

The Happy Mum, Happy Baby podcast host revealed her charitable work filters into her private home life with her husband, Tom Fletcher, and their three children, Buzz, Buddy, and Max. Speaking exclusively with HELLO! about her festive family traditions, Giovanna noted there is a delicate balance between gift-giving and gratitude over the festive period.

Christmas in moderation

"We get the kids to really think about what it is they want so that they don’t go overboard with the asks," the doting mother began. 

"Although I would say gratitude is something we work on all year, not just at Christmas. Any parent who has ever left a zoo/event/aquarium/theme park will know the pull of the gift shop. Parents have to practise shopping with intent a lot! I’d rather give something they actually want at Christmas than buy a meaningless piece of plastic at each of those places," she relatably added.

Giovanna Fletcher at The Beauty Awards 2025 at Honourable Artillery Company on November 24, 2025 in London, England© Getty Images

Giovanna is not afraid to have frank conversations with her sons, who are aged between six and 11, regarding their fortunate position and the need to spread generosity and kindness to others. She said: "The boys have always been aware that there are people doing good things to help others, and that we can all play a part in that. 

"They understand the value in passing on books, toys, clothes and shoes when they’re no longer needed, and can be welcomed by others. I don’t think helping others is a topic to skirt around with children."

As for Christmas Day, the family of five plans to take on the role of hosts for a family gathering, which will include a special tradition introduced by her sister, Giorgina Falcone. "My sister made us print out some Christmas carol lyrics a few years ago, so now we always sit around and have a song along!" she revealed.

How to donate children's gifts this Christmas

This Christmas, baby banks are calling for warmer clothing and pre-loved items to be gifted to children over the festive period who would otherwise be left with nothing to open on Christmas morning. 

HELLO! has paired up with Baby Bank Alliance to create a guide on how you can donate to banks across the country ahead of the holidays. 

  1. Find your local baby bank so that you can find out what it is they need more of before donating. You can search a map on www.babybankalliance.org, which will tell you where your closest bank is and how to reach it. Each baby bank has a list of different items they need and what the best times to donate these items are, so it is a great place to start if you want to help this season. 
  2. While every item donated is much appreciated, there are some things that are needed more than others and some that are not suitable for the baby banks. As mentioned, it is advised that you contact your local baby bank to ask what they need instead of turning up cold.
  3. Make sure you are not donating anything unsafe or unhygienic. This includes broken or damaged toys, used stair gates with missing parts, used car seats, used breast pumps or sterilisers, bouncers and walkers that are not new, maternity clothing, out-of-date or opened food and formula, repainted items, or second-hand mattresses.

Paddington celebrations

Their Yuletide celebrations will mark the end of a busy year for Giovanna and Tom. The former welcomed stars such as Sophie Ellis-Bextor, Keira Knightley and Davina McCall on her podcast, while the latter celebrated the premiere of Paddington the Musical at the Savoy Theatre in London, for which he wrote the music.

Following rave reviews on opening night, Giovanna gushed about her husband's success, admitting she was left in tears when watching the show for the first time. "Tom has worked so hard on this project, but I think it’s a testament to the brilliance of the show that when you’re watching, you’re only thinking about Paddington and his story. 

"I cried straight away. It’s beautiful. And the theatre magic just melts your heart," enthused the doting wife.

Giovanna Fletcher and Tom Fletcher attend the press night after party for Paddington The Musical at Freemasons' Hall on November 30, 2025 in London, England© Alan Chapman/Dave Benett/Getty I
Giovanna Fletcher and Tom Fletcher attend the press night after party for Paddington The Musical at Freemasons' Hall on November 30, 2025 in London, England

On the night of the premiere, Tom also explained to HELLO! what it meant to him to witness his work come to fruition. He said at the time: "I'm feeling very excited, a little bit nervous, but just so proud to have played a part in this amazing show."

Nerves aside, the 'All About You' singer had already received the royal seal of approval back in November 2025, when he introduced Paddington to the Prince and Princess of Wales at the Royal Variety Show.

"I cried straight away. It’s beautiful."

He described the moment as "surreal," but added that "it went down very well". So much so that he has extended a theatre invitation to the royals. "Who knows! Hopefully at some point they'll make it to the theatre to see it," said Tom.

The famous bear has a special history with the royal family, having appeared in a sketch with the late Queen Elizabeth II for her Platinum Jubilee in 2022.

Pictures from the press night for Paddington: The Musical​​​​

Hopes for the New Year 

This is not the first time the couple have crossed paths with royalty. Reflecting on some of the most iconic podcast guests she's welcomed on Happy Mum, Happy Baby so far, Giovanna admitted she is pleased that her candid conversation with Princess Kate in 2020 has shone a light on childbirth.

"I also used hypnobirthing techniques, so it was great hearing about her own experience. It’s crazy to think that conversation was five years ago. Hypnobirthing has become more widely talked about over the last decade," said Giovanna, who went on to reveal that several other guests have also left a lasting impression.

Giovanna Fletcher and Tom Fletcher attend the 'Together At Christmas' Carol Service at Westminster Abbey on December 06, 2024 in London, England© Getty Images
Giovanna Fletcher and Tom Fletcher attend the 'Together At Christmas' Carol Service at Westminster Abbey on December 06, 2024 in London, England

"They all stick with me, and I feel so honoured that people come and share what they do. Davina McCall was on a few months ago, and we talked about the fact that there are so many parts of a woman’s life where she feels lost and alone - mostly thanks to hormones. The most important thing is that we all talk!"

Giovanna has no plans to slow down in the New Year. Speaking about future guests she would love to welcome to her podcast, she said she's hoping 2026 could bring more candid conversations with James Van Der Beek about his "real family values," and Pink on her "amazing" methods for juggling work and family life. 

Find your local baby bank here, or donate to the Baby Bank Alliance today.

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