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Where is Princess Diana's sister Lady Sarah Spencer now? 

The older sister of Diana played a part in one of the most iconic royal marriages

Iona MacRobert
Editorial Assistant
May 7, 2025
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Lady Sarah McCorquodale is known for being the older sister of the late Princess Diana and for her brief dating history with the then-Prince Charles

Celebrating a milestone, Lady Sarah turned 70 on March 19. While the celebration details remained private, she likely spent it with family and friends at her family home in Lincolnshire.

But where is the Spencer sister nowadays?

As of 2025, she resides at her family home in Lincolnshire with her writer husband, Neil Edmund McCorquodale. 

While she isn’t massively in the royal spotlight, over the years, she has shown her support for both of her royal nephews, Prince Harry and Prince William, and attended both of their royal weddings.

Lady Sarah McCorquodale  in a brown suit and black feathered hat, smiling at Prince Harry who is talking to Earl Spencer© Tim Graham Photo Library via Get
Lady Sarah McCorquodale is the aunt of Prince Harry and Prince William

In September 2024, she even sweetly supported Prince William at a Royal Air Force engagement in Lincolnshire. 

She also played a part in orchestrating one of the most famous royal marriages between Charles and her sister Diana, referring to herself as 'Cupid.'

Spencer girls

Lady Sarah McCorquodale was born on 19 March 1955, at Park House, Norfolk and was the first child of John Spencer and Frances Roche. Her parents went on to have three other children: Lady Jane Fellows, Princess Diana, and Charles Spencer

Lady Sarah looking at the camera in a close-up shot wearing a blue jacket © Getty Images
She was the older sister of Princess Diana

The Spencers were raised in the aristocracy at Park House, a beautiful rented home on the Sandringham estate where the siblings grew up. In 1975, the family moved to Althorp Estate, the sprawling 90-room mansion Charles Spencer still calls home

Althorp estate from the front on a sunny day © Alamy Stock Photo
The Spencer siblings moved to Althorp Estate

In 1967, their mother Frances left John to be with Peter Shand Kydd, whom she had met a year before. Their father, John, was given sole custody.

London lifestyle

While the girls grew up with an affluent lifestyle, Sarah moved to London when she was nineteen to work and had an independent lifestyle.

Lady Sarah McCorquodale: 5 surprising facts

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1. Aristocratic upbringing 

As the daughter of an earl, she was entitled to the courtesy title ''Lady'' which was given to her in 1975 when her father inherited the Earldom.  

2. Althorp estate

Sarah's family moved to the huge Althorp estate in 1975, which has 90 rooms and 550 private acres of land.

3. London girl 

She spent her late teens and early twenties working in London, and she lived in a flat that was purchased by her mother, Frances Shand Kydd. 

4. Sisterly bond

The sisters often shared clothes, and several times, Sarah was spotted recycling one of Diana's outfits. 

5. Diana's documents 

Sarah was the executor of Diana's will, and according to Reuters, she had to shred Diana's confidential documents at Kensington Palace. At the 2008 inquest into Diana's death, she said: "Nothing historical was ever shredded.'' 

In the book Diana: The Portrait, Sarah recalled her London days: ''By the time I was nineteen I was living in London, holding down a very good job. My father owned a house which I ran and I had tenants. I took money from them.'

Meeting Prince Charles

Before Princess Diana met the then-Prince Charles, her older sister briefly dated her future husband. 

Sarah and Charles were introduced at the annual Royal Ascot party in 1977 when Sarah was 22 and he was 28. 

Young King Charles in a navy blue jumper chatting with young Lady Sarah © Getty Images
She briefly dated the then-Prince Charles

Sarah Bradford wrote in Diana: Finally, the Complete Story about the pair's initial attraction: ''Prince Charles enjoyed Sarah's sparkiness and irreverent wit and they made each other laugh.''

Prince Charles and Lady Sarah Spencer in a black and white photo, both of them wearing sunglasses© Corbis via Getty Images
They were spotted on fun dates together

The pair had a short-lived series of fun dates, including polo matches, a series of country house parties, and even a ski holiday.

Tina Brown wrote in The Diana Chronicles that Sarah enjoyed Prince Charles' ''squiring her around'' and receiving ''flattering invitations to Windsor and Balmoral.''

Lady Sarah Spencer dressed in a white ski suit laughing and Prince Charles in a red ski suit laughing at her© Getty Images
The ex-couple went on a skiing holiday

At the time, young Princess Diana was merely known to Charles as Sarah's ''jolly'' and ''bouncy'' younger sister.

Royal cupid

Lady Sarah and Prince Charles' romance didn’t last long after she gave an interview to her two journalist friends. In early 1978, Sarah had lunch with Nigel Nelson and James Whittaker, where she made a remark about her romance with Charles, which was publicly leaked.

In the interview given to The Sunday People in 2013, Sarah reportedly said to James: ''She declared she would not marry Charles if he were the dustman or the King of England. That was good news from where I was sitting, and Sarah seemed delighted I was so keen to share it with the nation.''

Charles was reportedly furious at the interview and allegedly told his girlfriend: ''You’ve just done something extremely stupid.’''

So after a year of dating, this drama led to their breakup. However, Charles moved on to date her younger sister, Diana, in 1980. Despite the family connection, there was no awkward tension between the sisters. Sarah gave her blessing to the match and reportedly introduced the pair to one another.

 The Prince And Princess Of Wales On Their Honeymoon In Balmoral, Scotland  © Tim Graham, Getty
Charles went on to date her younger sister, Diana

She even said to The Guardian she was ''cupid'' in the matchmaking of the lovers.

Who did Lady Sarah Spencer marry?

Instead of marrying a future King, Lady Sarah opted for a more humble husband, away from the royal spotlight. 

Emily McCorquodale, Lady Sarah McCorquodale and Neil McCorquodale© Getty
Lady Sarah and her husband Neil at their daughter Emily's wedding in 2012

She married writer, Neil Edmund McCorquodale, on 17 May 1980 - the same year Charles started dating Diana. They had three children together called Emily, George, and Ceila.

Sisterly bond

Throughout Princess Diana's final years, she remained close to her sister, and it's clear that Sarah was one of her trustworthy confidantes. Sarah would often accompany her younger sister on official visits as one of her ladies-in-waiting. 

Princess Diana in a biege dress smiling at her sister Lady Sarah in a blue striped dress© Tim Graham Photo Library via Get
The sisters were very close

When Diana passed away in 1997, after her tragic death in a car crash in the Pont de l'Alma tunnel on 31 August, Sarah flew to Paris with her siblings to accompany the body back to England. 

Her fondness for her sister continued when she became president of the Diana, Princess of Wales Memorial Fund until it closed in 2012.

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Princess Diana died in a car crash in 1997

Since the tragedy, Sarah has not spoken much about her sister's death. However, in the BBC documentary, Diana 7 Days, she reflected on the global grief that Diana provoked: ''My sister’s death has provoked this national, international reaction.''

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She even went on to say she never knew why her sister didn’t supposedly wear her seatbelt, the night of the crash: "She was religious about putting on her seatbelt. Why didn’t she put it on that night? I’ll never know.''

Lady Sarah Spencer may lead a more private life, but she left her royal mark as one of the Spencer sisters at a pivotal point in history.

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