Meghan Markle's honest verdict after first meeting sister-in-law Kate


The Duchess of Sussex first met the Princess of Wales in 2017 and described their initial meeting in just three words


Princess Kate and Meghan Markle looking at each other © Getty Images
Sharnaz Shahid
Sharnaz ShahidDeputy Online Editor
Updated: September 10, 2026

Although reports over the years suggest a somewhat strained relationship between the Princess of Wales and the Duchess of Sussex, a resurfaced clip from Meghan's engagement interview shows a sweet glimpse into their initial interactions. 

During their 2017 interview with the BBC's Mishal Husain, Prince Harry fondly recalled the anticipation surrounding Meghan's introduction to his family. 

Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex attend Christmas Day Church service at Church of St Mary Magdalene on the Sandringham estate on December 25, 2018© Pool/Samir Hussein
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He shared that his elder brother, Prince William, and Kate were "longing to meet" Meghan, and that the first meeting went "swimmingly". 

Living in close proximity within the Kensington Palace estate allowed for several get-togethers early on.

It was at this point in the conversation that Meghan offered her own perspective on meeting her future sister-in-law. 

Prince Harry in a blue suit and Meghan Markle in a white overcoat© Karwai Tang
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle attend an official photocall to announce their engagement

Meghan described Kate with a simple yet heartfelt three-word verdict: "She's been wonderful." Harry agreed, adding: "Amazing, as has William as well, you know, fantastic support." 

Relationship shift

However, a few years later, the narrative surrounding their first encounter appeared to shift. When the couple released their explosive Netflix documentary called Harry & Meghan in 2022, Meghan described the initial meeting with a somewhat different tone. 

During the series, Meghan expressed her surprise at how formal the royal family were behind closed doors. In the second episode, the former actress explained: "I met her [Kate] for the first time, I think we went for dinner, I remember I was in ripped jeans and barefoot. I was a hugger, I've always been a hugger, I didn't realise that that was jarring for a lot of Brits." 

Meghan Markle and a pregnant Kate Middleton laughing© Chris Jackson
Meghan and Kate had a great time on their first joint engagement back in 2018

As footage of William and Kate aired, she added: "I started to understand that the formality on the outside carried through on the inside, that there is a forward facing way of being, and then you close the door, [sighs], I can relax now. But that formality carries over on both sides and that was surprising to me." 

During the docuseries, Meghan spoke about her dislike of the engagement interview, calling it an "orchestrated reality show". 

Stars aligning

Prince Harry and Meghan attend the 2024 ESPY Awards at Dolby Theatre in July 2024© Getty Images for W+P
Meghan and Harry moved back from California to the UK in August 2026

In the historic interview, the couple appeared happy and relaxed as they spoke about how the "stars were aligned" when they met and how Harry proposed during a cosy night as he cooked a roast chicken dinner. 

Speaking about the interview, Meghan said: "We went right inside. Took the coat off. Sat down and did the interview. It was all in that same moment."

The Duke and Duchess of Sussex and their children at Disneyland© Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex
The couple were living in the United States with their two children for six years

The couple recently returned to the UK with their two children, Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet, after six years in Montecito, California. Only time will tell if Meghan and the Princess of Wales rekindle their friendship now that they are living in close proximity.

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