Modest dressing in your 60s? Think again, this is the time to dress sexier! Turning 60 isn't the time to fade into the background, but the chance to step into your most confident, alluring you. It's time to embrace your sexiness and dress how you want to.
Elegance and sophistication are style traits to bear in mind, but there's nothing sexier than radiating your own self-worth and your wardrobe can help with that.
Fashion and fitness influencer Fiona Lambert is testament to looking incredible and dressing confidently in your 60s. The 62-year-old is the author behind two books, Invincible Not Invisible and S. A. S. Sixty and Single: Your Survival Guide to Dating, both of which she wrote after turning 60. And her approach to fashion has changed with age, too: "Wear what you want if it makes you feel good," she said. "Fashion fades, style remains and mine is pretty eclectic! Knowing what suits you, whether it’s a colour, or a shape of dress, looks much more stylish than slavishly following fashion trends."
- The sexy blouse: Phase Eight Ilaria Drape Sleeve Keyhole Top, £47.20 / $100
- A curve skimming dress: M&S Lace Midaxi Midi Dress, £55 / $109
- Leather trousers: Karen Millen Forever Stretch Leather Jean, £329 / $589
- Sheer sleeved tee: Next Sheer Layered Top, £35 / $62
- Off the shoulder top: Friends Like These Top, £32 / $66
- Heeled ankle boots: Dune London Heeled Ankle Boots, £149 / $210
It's easy to get stuck in a style rut, which is why I asked Fiona for some of her top do's and don'ts on dressing confidently when you've hit 60. Fiona dresses like a woman who knows what suits her, and her confidence shines through. Fiona trained as a fashion designer and after a 37-year career in fashion, is well equipped to giving some inspiration on what to wear to feel your most sexiest self, at 60 or any age. Fiona documents many of her outfits on her Instagram, too.
© InstagramThere's no hard and fast rules, but more of an understanding that there's some key wardrobe pieces that will serve you well, when you want to feel sexy. "Confidence, that’s the real secret" explains Fiona. "Sexy isn’t about flashing the most skin — it’s about knowing who you are, knowing what suits you and wearing clothes that make you feel fabulous. It’s the way you walk into a room with your head held high. At 60 and beyond, we’ve earned the right to own our style."
Fiona says: "Choose pieces that show your personality, whether that’s a red lip, a cinched waist, or a hint of shoulder. Sexy is subtle, powerful, and absolutely ageless." And before you fear it's about showing skin, if you're not comfortable with that, fear not. " Sexy is a feeling, not a hemline" enthuses Fiona. "You can ooze allure without showing a single inch of skin if you don’t want to."
Keep reading to find out Fiona's top tips for dressing sexier in your 60s and the key pieces to build your sexiest wardrobe yet...
1. Invest in well cut pieces
It's about quality, not quantity. "The right fit transforms everything", Fiona explains. "Invest in well cut pieces that suit your shape."
2. Wear colour
Fiona loves to wear bright colours and bold patterns. "It can make you subtly stand out from the crowd, can enhance mood, and the right colour will make your skin glow."
3. Accessorise with intention
Even the most simple outfit but can be given a slither of sexiness with the right accessories. Fiona advises: "A bold cuff or statement earrings can elevate a whole look."
4. Avoid shapeless silhouettes
As tempting as it might be to wear something oversized or shapeless, it's a no-go in Fiona's book. "Don’t hide yourself in shapeless clothes or wear head to toe black. It doesn’t disguise anything; it just dulls your light."
5. Don't chase trends or approval
"Don’t chase trends that don’t serve you" Fiona says. "Confidence in YOUR style is everything, chasing fashion fads that don’t suit you will make you feel uncomfortable. And don’t think age dictates what’s “appropriate.” If you have great legs, feel free to show them off! Don’t let others judgement weigh you down."
© Instagram / Fiona LambertFiona's key pieces for dressing sexy in your 60s
1. A curve skimming dress
"Choose one of the many styles around with draping that enhance curves and exude strong femininity," advises Fiona. Shapewear is your friend, if you want a more smoothed look and for winter, add a knee high boot or pair of tights. "Think about tailored stretch pieces that define your shape without clinging." Or try layered pieces which give you the coverage of a block dress with a little peekaboo detailing.
M&S Lace Midaxi Dress
© M&SYou will be surprised by how much you wear this LBD, with interesting layers and flattering lace.
AX Paris Long Sleeve O-Ring Detail Bodycon Midi Dress
© DebenhamsBurgundy is great for autumn, and this dress has a flattering ring-detail at the middle to hide a tum.
2. Top with interesting neckline
"It suggests more than it shows. A solid colour or small geometric print exudes elegant, grown-up glamour," Fiona explains. Wear with leather trousers, coated jeans or denim to keep things modern.
Phase Eight Keyhole Blouse
© Phase EightA little peekaboo blouse is sexy yet smart.
Boden Ruffled Georgette Top
© BodenThis flirty boho blouse has all the feminine detailings; add a pair of leather trousers or jeans.
3. Leather Trousers
Skip black trousers and go for coated denim trousers or leather trousers. Fiona calls them "flattering and modern" and suggests they're worn with an oversized knit or a subtle, sexy silk blouse. If skinny styles aren't for you, try a cigarette pant or a subtle barrel leg for a flattering, easy to wear fit.
Karen Millen Forever Stretch Leather Jean
© Karen MillenLook for jean-style coated rousers in leather if it's your first foray into leather.
M&S Leather Trousers
© M&SThese are designed in a flattering straight fit, with a neat button-and-zip fastening and a high waistline.
4. Off The Shoulder Top
"Your shoulders don’t age," says Fiona. "This way you can still show glimpses of skin and feel elegant."
Friends Like These Off The Shoulder Top
© NextShow off your sexy shoulders with a shoulder-baring top; for autumn, teal is the colour of the season.
Phase Eight Velvet Off Shoulder Top
© Phase EightTry a light knit that falls off the shoulder in a tactile fabric like velvet.
5. Heeled ankle boots
There's a flattering reason Fiona chose these as a must-have for fall. "A heel changes your posture, pushes your shoulders back and hips forward; it changes your walk and your mood."
Look for a mid-heel boot that's comfy yet stylish with your preference of heel type; either slim or blocked. Try M&S, Mango and Sole Bliss for a range of styles.
Dune London Heeled Ankle Boots
© Dune LondonA block heel adds a modern touch.
Boden Isobel Kitten Heel Ankle Boots
© BodenSuede plus leopard adds a sexy touch.
6. Sheer sleeve blouses
"They're covered up but still letting light in," explains Fiona. These are great for the colder seasons as you can still look sexy without showing skin - or being cold.
Next Sheer Layer Cape Sleeve Top with Cami
© NEXTThis is an easy way to do sheer; the top has a built-in cami to cover up, and batwing style sleeves for glamour.
Mint Velvet Woven Cape Top
© Mint VelvetA classic black top is made sexier with the sheer fabric.
7. Silky fabrics
"They feel divine, drape gently around your body and float and move beautifully when you walk." A silky midi skirt is a wardrobe staple - it's super sexy and ultra elegant, even with a sweater.
Whistles Lace Hem Satin Midi Skirt
© WhistlesSatin midi skirts come in all shades, but don't overlook one with extra details, like this sexy lace trimmed version.
The Fold Satin Skirt
© The FoldHow sumptuous and sexy is this tangerine shade?
8. A tailored coat
As we're still in midst of chilly weather, your coat choice should have some thought. Fiona suggests a tailored, wool coat as the piece to see you through the season and events without hiding your figure. "Classic, sculptural, and timeless and a cinched waist gives an hourglass look." A belted wool coat will achieve the same look, pulling in the waist.
Karen Millen Double Breasted Tailored Wool Coat
© M&SThis coat is available in this luxe cream, and is a high quality choice to throw on over any outfit.
Whistles Wrap Coat
© WhistlesThis is great for cinching as much - or as little - as you want.
