David Harbour finally breaks silence on ex Lily Allen's cheating allegations in West End Girl: 'Wasn't my experience'


The Stranger Things actor was married to the "Madeline" singer from 2020 to 2025, with their quiet separation becoming the subject of her acclaimed record


Lily Allen and David Harbour attend the premiere of Universal Pictures' "Violent Night" at TCL Chinese Theatre on November 29, 2022 in Hollywood, California.© Getty Images
Ahad Sanwari
Ahad SanwariSenior Writer - New York
2 minutes ago
Share this:

David Harbour is finally sharing his side of the story on his ex-wife Lily Allen's damning (and very viral) allegations and allusions on her latest studio album.

The actor, 51, became the subject of much speculation and dominated the pop culture discourse in the last quarter of 2025, thanks especially to the release of Lily's album West End Girl.

The LP included several raw and honest lyrics that made damning allegations about the dissolution of their five-year marriage, including infidelity, sexual proclivities, and a general emotional distance, to which she responded with her own crushing admission of the end of their relationship.

The couple split in 2025© Getty Images
David Harbour is finally speaking out about his ex-wife Lily Allen's latest album

West End Girl was received with massive critical acclaim, resulting in a resurgence in Lily's public profile, and some of her biggest commercial hits. It also put a target on the Stranger Things star, who did not respond to the album's claims in any way and was in controversy due to an alleged rift on set with his co-star Millie Bobby Brown ahead of the Netflix show's conclusion.

Now, for the first time, David is speaking out about his ex-wife's album in an interview with Variety, and while he doesn't categorically accept or deny any of the claims she made, he carefully chalks it up to her own personal perspective on things.

Millie Bobby Brown and David Harbour at the "Stranger Things" Season 5 World Premiere After Party held at the TCL Chinese Theatre on November 06, 2025 in Los Angeles, California.© Getty Images
The actor was also hit with a report claiming an on-set rift between himself and Millie Bobby Brown

"It was weird," he said of being the subject of so much chatter due to the record. "I do believe that it is the privilege of every artist to use their experience to create art, and so I respect her for doing that."

However, he shied away from diving too deep into the subject. "I can't really say that much more, because it's my private life. In spite of the fact that a lot of people don't allow me a private life — I value it. And I also value the lives of the people that I interact with privately. I just won't speak about that."

David has remained quiet about ex-wife Lily's new album© Getty Images
The couple tied the knot in 2020 and quietly separated in 2025

He further said: "Stories are complex, and that's why I say I respect her creation of art to channel her experience. It wasn't my experience," then referencing his upcoming project, DTF St. Louis.

"My ability to use my experience comes through in the creation of 'DTF.'," he told the publication. "I want to make things that make people feel safer. My particular talent is in allowing people to feel like they're not alone."

: Lily Allen and David Harbour attend Netflix's "Stranger Things" Season 4 Premiere at Netflix Brooklyn on May 14, 2022 in Brooklyn, New York. © Getty Images
Lily also shares two daughters with ex-husband Sam Cooper

David further doubled down on his desire for more privacy, and wanting his work in several upcoming projects throughout the year (including the highly anticipated Avengers: Doomsday) to speak for itself rather than the notions created by West End Girl or Stranger Things.

"I tend to value and understand the nature of privacy," he explained. "And the nature of real friendship." Once again referencing DTF, he stated that he just wanted audiences to care for his own character rather than himself.

 Lily Allen and US actor David Harbour pose on the red carpet upon arrival to attend the West End world premiere of "Stranger Things: The Last Shadow© Getty Images
"Stories are complex, and that's why I say I respect her creation of art to channel her experience. It wasn't my experience."

"The challenge, and my hope, is that I just do such a [expletive] good job that you — even if you hate me or you love me — you lose yourself in that moment and you go, 'I'm watching Floyd.' That's all I really ever want to do. It forces me to try to be earnest in my intent."

More US
See more