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Julia Roberts' Hollywood love life: from her two marriages to exes Matthew Perry, Dylan McDermott and more


The Pretty Woman star, who turned 58 on October 28, has been linked with several prominent stars, and is currently married to Daniel Moder


Julia Roberts attends the "After The Hunt" Red Carpet during the 63rd New York Film Festival at Alice Tully Hall, Lincoln Center on September 26, 2025 in New York City.© Getty Images
Ahad Sanwari
Ahad SanwariSenior Writer - New York
October 28, 2025
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Hollywood's favorite *it girl* Julia Roberts completes another year 'round the sun today! The actress turned 58 on Tuesday, October 28, closer than ever to completing four decades in the industry. While making her screen debut in 1987, opposite her already-famous brother Eric Roberts, it was in the 1988 film Mystic Pizza that she first earned praise, cementing herself as a potential Hollywood power player with the following year's Steel Magnolias, earning herself her first Academy Award nomination and her first Golden Globe win.

What those projects also hold in common was her romantic associations with them, with her early years in Hollywood also bringing romantic connections with other A-list names. As the star's profile grew with her acclaimed romantic-comedies and capable dramatic work, so did her image as the industry's sweetheart and a romantic lead in real life as well.

While Julia is now happily married, and a doting mom to twins Hazel and Phinnaeus, 20, and younger son Henry, 18, she did have her fair share of romantic ups and downs, resulting in one highly-publicized broken engagement, and a short-lived first marriage, among others. And in honor of her big day, we're taking a walk down memory lane!

Revisit Julia's storied Hollywood love life over the decades, from brief romances with former co-stars to her two marriages…

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Liam Neeson

While there is no official confirmation on whether Julia and actor Liam Neeson actually dated, they reportedly were together for almost a year after meeting on the set of 1988's Satisfaction. Newcomer Julia was 19, while Liam was in his mid-30s. However, it didn't last long, as the actress soon met…

Julia Roberts and Dylan McDermott© Getty Images

Dylan McDermott

In 1989, she starred in Steel Magnolias opposite Dylan McDermott, with the two striking up a relationship that lasted reportedly from 1988 to 1990. Rumors swirled at the time that the two were even engaged, although their romance soon fizzled out as well, with the actor marrying (now ex-wife) Shiva Rose in 1995.

Julia Roberts & Kiefer Sutherland at the 63rd Annual Academy Awards© Getty Images

Kiefer Sutherland

In late 1989, Julia met Kiefer Sutherland while starring together in Flatliners, and they started dating soon after Kiefer's divorce from Camelia Kath was finalized. In 1990, the pair announced their engagement, with a wedding to follow in 1991. However, just three days before the ceremony, their nuptials were called off and the couple broke up.

Jason Patric and Julia Roberts at the premiere of "Rush"© Getty Images

Jason Patric

It was the day of the wedding that the Pretty Woman star was reportedly spotting jetting off on vacation with Jason Patric, Kiefer's close friend and co-star in 1987's The Lost Boys. The pair dated for about a year, and in 2011, Jason told Vulture: "[Kiefer and Julia] had a relationship that ended and I was with her for a little while and it ended. They've both been subsequently married several times and I think they're fine. But we never had any issue, even back then."

Lyle Lovett & Julia Roberts at the Carnegie Hall in New York, New York © Getty Images

Lyle Lovett

On the set of The Player in 1993, Julia met country singer Lyle Lovett, who is a decade her senior. After a whirlwind three-week courtship, the pair eloped in Indiana. However, less than two years later, they announced their divorce. They remained friends, however, with Lyle going on to marry April Kimble in 2017, welcoming two children with her.

Matthew Perry with Julia Roberts © Getty Images

Matthew Perry

While appearing on the 1996 Friends episode "The One After the Super Bowl," Julia met Matthew Perry, and the pair briefly dated soon after. Reflecting on his death exactly two years ago (on her birthday in 2023), the actress told ET: "The sudden passing of anybody so young is heartbreaking. I think that, you know, it just helps all of us just appreciate what we have and to keep going in a positive way as best we can."

Best Actress for "Erin Brockovich," Julia Roberts and boyfriend Benjamin Bratt pose for the photographers at the Governor's Ball following the 73rd Annual Academy Awards March 25, 2001 at the Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles, CA. Bratt is wearing an Armani Suit and Roberts is wearing a vintage Valentino dress from 1982 with Van Cleef and Arpels jewelry. Her hair is by Serge Normant of the Jed Root Agency and her makeup is by Genivive Herr.© Getty Images

Benjamin Bratt

In 1998, Julia began dating actor Benjamin Bratt, with their courtship lasting for a few years. In 2001, after nearly four years together, they called it quits, with the Miss Congeniality star telling Vanity Fair that the excess publicity played a part in it, saying: "I experienced that living at that level of visibility is something that doesn't appeal to me. And I discovered it can't really appeal to anyone. Even she, as well as other people of that magnitude of fame, doesn't enjoy it."

Julia Roberts smiling and hugging a smiling Daniel Moder from behind© Getty Images

Daniel Moder

In 2000, the star met cinematographer Daniel "Danny" Moder on the set of the film The Mexican while she was with Benjamin and he was with then-wife Vera Steimberg. They started dating soon after her breakup with Benjamin, and in 2002, once Danny and Vera's divorce was finalized, they tied the knot.

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