Angelina Jolie's brother's eye-opening interview unearthed — what he said about Brad Pitt


James Haven and his sister Angelina have always had a close bond


Angelina Jolie and Brother James Haven smiling on red carpet© WireImage
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Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt's marriage didn't have a happy ending but what was their romance like before things turned sour?

An unearthed interview with the Tomb Raider star's brother, James Haven, paints an insightful picture of their relationship.

James — who recently revealed he is gay — has always been supportive of his famous sibling and even more so as she navigated parenting the six children she shares with Brad alone. But James was once enamoured by the bond Angelina shared with her ex. 

Angelina Jolie and brother James Haven© Getty Images
Angelina and brother James Haven

In 2007, a few years into Brangelina's relationship, James spoke to Grazia magazine to clear up reports his sibling was controlling in her relationship.

"I have never seen any sign of tension between them," he told the outlet. "They make all their decisions together. It's rubbish that she tries to control him."

Since their split in 2016, there have been numerous reports and legal documents that claim things have become increasingly bitter between the former couple and also between Brad and his son, Pax; including the fact his kids have dropped his last name

Behind closed doors, Angelina and Brad had a relationship James thought was perfect

Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie attend the Inglourious Basterds Premiere held at the Palais Des Festivals during the 62nd International Cannes Film Festival in 2009 © Getty
James opened up about Angelina and Brad's relationship in 2007

But they were the ultimate team back in the day, according to James. "They have a balanced relationship; they each do their stuff," he continued. "I've never seen moments where one is nagging or controlling the other."

In fact, he credited Brad for bringing out the best in his sister and for encouraging her to adopt more children. "Brad has changed my sister a lot. They have an extraordinary bond, but not on the usual level," James continued. 

"Brad is so strong for her. When she feels vulnerable, he has the most incredible strength. She says she couldn't have after Maddox without him."

Brad and Angelina created a wonderful family but things turned sour after their split

Brad adopted Angelina’s children Maddox and Zahara, with their names being changed to Jolie-Pitt in 2006. 

Angelina Jolie and brother James Haven with dad Jon Voight© Getty Images
Angelina and brother James Haven with dad Jon Voight

The couple welcomed their first biological child, Shiloh, in November 2006. In 2007, Angelina adopted Pax, three, from Vietnam, with Brad adopting him in February 2008. In May 2008, the couple welcomed twins, Knox and Vivienne. 

"The great thing about Brad and Angelina is that they really get each other's sense of humor, and make each other laugh a lot," James remarked. "They talk about politics a great deal and are very creative together with the projects they are working on. If it keeps going the way it's going, they'll be together for life."

Maddox Jolie-Pitt, Vivienne Jolie-Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Zahara Jolie-Pitt, Shiloh Jolie-Pitt and Knox Jolie-Pitt attend the Los Angeles Premiere of Marvel Studios' "Eternals" on October 18, 2021 in Los Angeles, California.© Getty Images
Angelina with five of her six children

James' view on his former brother-in-law appears to have altered somewhat as he recently spoke out in a rare interview on the 90who10 podcast.

James Haven said he fought to protect his sister and her children 

angelina jolie brad pitt maddox oscars© WireImage
Brad, Angelina and Maddox

He discussed his commitment to protecting and supporting Angelina's amid her divorce. "That's where it all started," he said, hinting at a renewed phase in his life with Angelina.

"It started with the protection of her and then of her children, my nieces and nephews." James said he hoped to be more present for Maddox, Pax, Zahara, Shiloh, and Knox and Vivienne.  

Angelina Jolie and Pax Thien Jolie-Pitt are seen out and about on August 16© MEGA/Getty
Angelina and son Pax

"I set my life up so I can be present with whatever the situation. The formative years, the young adults they're going to become, I want to be there for them — or for her — whatever she's going through."

James came out as gay in a livestream with his ex-wife

James haven ex wife romi imbelli© Instagram
James come out to the world in a livestream with his ex

The 53-year-old appeared on his ex Romi Imbelli's livestream for her Substack, Breathe Mija, and confirmed the news in the 35-minute video.

"I'm gay. I'm a lot of things," he began in his statement. Romi chimed in, sharing that she had an inkling that her ex-husband was gay all along.

"I didn't want to see it. I didn't want to believe," she explained. "I knew it, and I wanted to support you and love you, and then I didn't want to believe it because then it would mean losing you in that capacity, which I couldn't."

Romi, who married James in August 2024 and filed for annulment just 15 days later, shared that he would remain her "life partner" and her "love".

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