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Cameron Diaz serves up surprising marriage advice: ‘We need to normalize separate bedrooms’

The Back in Action actress married musician Benji Madden in 2015

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Faye James
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Cameron Diaz has shared her views on marital sleeping arrangements during an episode of model Molly Sims' podcast, sparking a conversation about what constitutes a healthy lifestyle. 

"We should normalize separate bedrooms," said the 51-year-old star of The Holiday, outlining her somewhat unconventional perspective on marital living. 

"To me, I would literally have my house, you have yours, and we have the family house in the middle. I will go and sleep in my room. You go sleep in your room. I'm fine," Cameron explained.

She then elaborated on this concept, suggesting a middle bedroom for couples to meet for intimacy. 

Benji Madden and actress Cameron Diaz attend House of Harlow 1960 x REVOLVE on June 2, 2016 in Los Angeles, California© Getty Images
Benji Madden and actress Cameron Diaz

Cameron's comments initially seemed to suggest a preference for this living arrangement. However, she later clarified that this idea doesn’t currently apply to her life with husband Benji Madden, 44, lead guitarist and backing vocalist for the band Good Charlotte.

The couple's relationship, which blossomed into marriage in 2015 just ten months after the pair were introduced by Nicole Richie, has been a journey of deepening affection. 

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Cameron Diaz says seperate bedrooms are the way to go

Nicole, who is married to Benji's twin brother Joel Madden, played a pivotal role in their meeting. Reflecting on their first encounter during a 2021 appearance on Anna Faris' podcast, 

Cameron recalled being instantly attracted to Benji. 

"When I saw who he was, that's what made me really be like, 'Oh, you're special, you're the guy, you're the hidden gem in my life,'" she shared.

Josh Madden, singer-songwriter Lionel Richie, fashion designer Nicole Richie, singer Joel Madden, actress Cameron Diaz and guitarist Benji Madden attend House of Harlow 1960 x REVOLVE on June 2, 2016 in Los Angeles, California© Getty
Nicole is in-laws with Cameron Diaz, who is married to Joel's twin brother Benji

Cameron, who has always been vocal about her personal life and choices, previously expressed that marrying Benji was 'the best thing that's ever happened' to her. 

The couple welcomed their daughter Raddix in 2020, and Cameron, during a conversation with Gucci Westman that year, shared her joy in motherhood. 

"I'm so grateful and so happy, and it's the best thing ever. I'm so lucky to do it with Benji, and we're having the best time. I'm thrilled. I can't believe it."

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Cameron says she loves being married

In 2018, Cameron stepped away from her acting career to focus on her family, surprising fans with her decision. However, she made a brief return to the spotlight in 2022 to shoot the Netflix film "Back In Action" with co-star Jamie Foxx, only to retire again after filming.

Cameron and her family, including Benji and Raddix, live a relatively private life in Montecito, California, in their $12.67 million mansion situated in the gated community of Ennisbrook. 

The property, initially listed for $15.75 million, offers the family a serene and luxurious living space.

In January, the couple celebrated their eighth wedding anniversary, and Benji took to Instagram to express his love and admiration for Cameron. "Eight years married, side by side, and now a little one for us to guide. Let's do 80 more and then forever. Happy anniversary 15," he lovingly wrote.

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