Inside the high society lives of Princess Diana's siblings including the sister who briefly dated King Charles


The late Diana, Princess of Wales was close to her two sisters and one brother so let's take a look inside their lives and where they are now...


Danielle Stacey
Danielle StaceyOnline Royal CorrespondentLondon
Updated: 1 hour ago

Before moving to Althorp, the late Diana, Princess of Wales, spent part of her childhood in Norfolk alongside her three siblings before settling in the Spencer family seat in Northamptonshire.

Princess Diana's life changed forever when she married the then-Prince Charles in 1981, aged 20. The couple went on to have two children together, Prince William and Prince Harry, before divorcing in 1996. Following her tragic death in a Paris car accident the following year, Diana's older sisters, Lady Sarah McCorquodale  and Lady Jane Fellowes, and her younger brother, Charles, 9th Earl Spencer, remained close to her sons and continue to uphold her legacy.

iana, Princess of Wales  (1961 to 1997) attends a dinner at the British Embassy in Washington, DC, November 1985. She is wearing an evening dress by Murray Arbeid and the Queen Mary tiara.© Getty Images
Princess Diana was close to her three siblings

While Charles has remained in the public eye – particularly recently following the publication of his controversial memoir, Swan Song, about his late sister –  Lady Sarah and Lady Jane have largely stayed out of the spotlight.

Here is everything you need to know about Diana's siblings...

Lady Sarah McCorquodale and her fascinating dating history

Lady Sarah McCorquodale© Getty
Lady Sarah has remained close to nephews William and Harry

Born in 1955 to John, 8th Earl Spencer and Frances Shand Kydd, Sarah is the oldest of the Spencer siblings. She attended Riddlesworth Hall School in Norfolk and later West Heath boarding school in Kent. While working in London after passing her O levels, she met then-Prince Charles at a party in 1977 and the two briefly dated. During that time, it's thought that Lady Sarah is said to have been the one to introduce Charles to her younger sister Diana. 

Prince Charles stands next to his then-girlfriend and sister of Lady Diana Spencer, Lady Sarah Spencer© Getty
Prince Charles and Lady Sarah in 1977

She even made public comments about her own breakup to Charles in 1978 to TIME, saying: "There is no chance of my marrying him. I’m not in love with him. And I wouldn't marry anyone I didn't love whether he were the dustman or the King of England." 

Princess Diana and her sister Sarah in 1981© Getty
Diana and Sarah in 1981

Despite the relationship not working out, she married Neil McCorquodale in 1980 and the pair went on to have three children – Emily, George and Celia. Now, Lady Sarah and her husband reside near Grantham, Lincolnshire, where she served a one-year term as High Sheriff of Lincolnshire in 2009. In 2010, she became a master of the Belvoir Hunt and was also president of the now-defunct Diana, Princess of Wales Memorial Fund, which raised money for various charities. 

Diana's sons have stayed in touch with Sarah, and attended their cousin Emily's wedding to James Hutt in 2012, along with Kate. Harry was also among the guests at his cousin George's nuptials to Bianca Moore in South Africa, and he and Meghan celebrated Celia's McCorquodale's marriage to George Woodhouse just a month after their own wedding in 2018. After all of those weddings, Lady Sarah now has accumulated a rather big family with seven grandchildren of her own from her three children.

Emily McCorquodale, Lady Sarah McCorquodale and Neil McCorquodale© Getty
Lady Sarah and her husband Neil at their daughter Emily's wedding in 2012

Lady Jane Fellowes and her godmother duties 

Jane Fellowes at Harry and Meghan's wedding© Getty
Jane delivered a reading at Harry and Meghan's wedding

Lady Jane, born in 1957, was close to her sister Diana in their adult years. Like her sisters, she was also educated at West Heath boarding school. In 1978, she married Robert Fellowes, who was then assistant private secretary to the Queen.

Lady Jane Spencer's wedding to Robert Fellowes in 1978© Getty
Diana was Lady Jane's bridesmaid at her wedding to Robert Fellowes in 1978

When Diana wed Prince Charles in 1981, the Spencer sisters both resided at Kensington Palace. Robert was granted a life peerage as Baron Fellowes in 1999, making Jane Baroness Fellowes. The couple shares three children – Laura, Alexander and Eleonor.

Alexander Fellowes And Alexandra Finlay's wedding in 2013© Getty
Harry attended his cousin Alexander Fellowes And Alexandra Finlay's wedding

Like her sister, Jane remains close with Diana's sons. William and Kate attended Laura Fellowes' wedding to Nick Pettman in 2009 in their dating years. Proving their bond even further, Laura was chosen to be one of Princess Charlotte's godparents at her christening in 2015. Harry made a solo appearance at Alexander's nuptials to Alexandra Finlay in London in 2013. Through her children, Lady Jane is grandmother to five grandchildren.

Charles, 9th Earl Spencer and his close bond with his sister 

Earl Charles Spencer attends the ICAP charity day at ICAP on December 9, 2015 in London© Getty
Charles Spencer is custodian of Althorp

Diana and Charles shared a close bond growing up, with the Earl often sharing childhood photographs on his Instagram account. He was educated at Eton College and read Modern History at Magdalen College, Oxford. Throughout the years, Charles has worked as a broadcaster and has written a number of books around his family history and ancestral home, Althorp.

Lady Diana Spencer and Charles Spencer in 1968© Getty
A young Charles Spencer with sister Diana in 1968

He has four children with his first wife, British fashion model Victoria Aitken – Lady Kitty Spencer, twins Lady Eliza and Lady Amelia Spencer, and Louis Spencer, Viscount Althorp. Lady Kitty married business tycoon Michael Lewis in a lavish ceremony in Rome in 2021, while Lady Amelia wed Greg Mallett in 2023. Following his divorce from Victoria in 1997, Charles went on to marry and have two children with Caroline Freud – the Honorable Edmund Spencer and Lady Lara Spencer.

 Lady Amelia Spencer, Lady Kitty Spencer and Lady Eliza Spencer© Getty
Charles's daughters Lady Amelia Spencer, Lady Kitty Spencer and Lady Eliza Spencer

Charles and Caroline separated in 2007 and later divorced. He is currently married to his third wife, Karen Gordon, with whom he shares a daughter, Lady Charlotte Diana Spencer.

Charles Spencer and Karen Spencer at Ascot© Getty
Charles with his third wife Karen

His most recent book, Swan Song: Diana, My Sister, made a series of explosive claims, including the allegation that King Charles was "giddy" following the death of Princess Diana. Buckingham Palace pushed back, releasing a statement that read: "Fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory in ways others do not recognise."

The palace was not alone in speaking out; Charles Spencer also issued an apology to Piers Morgan over a factual error within its pages. Prince William and Prince Harry were approached separately by reporters for comment, but neither responded. However, Charles told People magazine that both princes were "made aware" of the project, adding that Harry was "completely fine" with it.

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