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Russell Simmons' bitter family feud with ex-wife Kimora Lee and daughters – what to know

The Def Jam Recordings co-founder has been accused of abuse by his ex-wife and two daughters


Russell Simmons and Kimora Lee Simmons attend the Baby Phat & KLS Collection Spring 2010 during Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week at Roseland Ballroom on September 15, 2009 in New York City
Beatriz Colon
Beatriz Colon - New York
New York WriterNew York
20 June 2023
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Russell Simmons has a tense family feud brewing between himself and his ex-wife, Kimora Lee Simmons, and the former couple's two daughters, Ming, 23, and Aoki, 20.

The record executive and his ex-wife first met in 1992, before tying the knot with a wedding in St. Barth's in 1998. They welcomed their daughters in 2000 and 2002, though they announced their separation in 2006, and finalized their divorce two years later.

Though it has been over a decade since their divorce, the two appear to have become estranged, and have taken the ill will between them to social media.

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On Monday, following Father's Day in the U.S., Russell took to his Instagram Stories with a defiant message seemingly aimed at his ex-wife, which read: "Stop telling fathers they should have fought harder to see their children & start asking mothers why he had to fight at all."

Kimora then took to her own Instagram Stories with a rebuttal to her ex-husbands cryptic message, giving more insight into the concerning source behind their feud.

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"I'm so sorry to have to do this," she started, before revealing: "But this man has been threatening my kids' lives."

Screenshot of a statement shared by Kimora Lee Simmons on her Instagram Stories June 19 amid her feud with ex-husband Russell Simmons© Instagram
Kimora spoke out against her ex on her Instagram Stories

She added: "I'm hearing so much more now. We won't be bullied, threatened or afraid."

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Before continuing her statement, she included a screen recording of a FaceTime conversation between the entrepreneur and his youngest daughter, Aoki, and though the sound was turned off, he appears to be screaming at her while she talks back in between tears.

Kimora Lee Simmons, Aoki Lee, Ming Lee and Russell Simmons are seen around Lincoln Center during Spring 2013 Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week on September 7, 2012 in New York City© Getty
The family pictured in 2013, four years after the couple's divorce

Kimora then continued: "Leave my kids alone. This narrative of attacking the only caregiver, the only parent in the home with the kids, the mom, AND the kids for one's own shortcomings and embarrassment is dead."

She added: "This is how you maneuver with the world and women all around you. Your threats and lies and intimidation maneuvers and tactics are sad. Stop it please. Your own flesh and blood? Enough is enough."

Screenshot of a statement shared by Kimora Lee Simmons on her Instagram Stories June 19 amid her feud with ex-husband Russell Simmons© Instagram
Both the model and her daughters have spoken out against Russell

The model also accused Russell of having told his daughters they "would never work again" and that he would "ruin" them, and concluded with: "For those of you who know and send your love and support – thank you, we love you."

Kimora Lee Simmons and Russell Simmons in 1999© Getty
The former couple in 1999

Aoki also shared her own side of the story on her Instagram Stories, sharing a compilation of her previous Father's Day tributes to her dad as proof of their previous supportive relationship, before sharing a screenshot of a message she sent him explaining why she stopped talking to him.

In part it read: "Dad, I stopped talking to you because you were giving me panic attacks to the point I was placed on emergency medication every time we spoke. I cannot have a relationship with you until that stops. No one stops me from talking to you, my health does. I have to put that first."

Screenshot of a conversation between Russell Simmons and his daughter Aoki shared to her Instagram Stories June 19 © Instagram
Aoki shared insight into why she became estranged from her dad

Russell's Instagram account remains sprinkled with photos and videos of his daughters, and in his second to last post, also a photo of his daughters, he wrote: "God is testing you a little bit, it's ok, be strong… they are called growing pains… as you know, we grow through adversity and struggle."

He concluded: "DEEPLY sorry for being frustrated and yelling… But know this… there are no conditions… for sure I love you guys more than I love myself."

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