Brooklyn Beckham's bombshell statement on 19 January broke the internet when he finally spoke up on rumours of a feud with his parents, David and Victoria Beckham. However, in his lengthy statement, which he shared to his Instagram stories, an unexpected member of the wider Beckham family was dragged into the centre of the conflict.
The 26-year-old's wedding day, when he finally tied the knot with his billionaire heiress wife Nicola Peltz, appeared to be a major point of conflict, with various events taking place that fuelled the fire, including complications surrounding a dress, and one about a first dance.
Sandra Beckham is very close with both her son, David, and her grandson, Brooklyn
In his statement, Brooklyn wrote: "During the wedding planning, my mum went so far as to call me 'evil' because Nicola and I chose to include my Nanny Sandra, and Nicola's Naunni at our table, because they both didn't have their husbands. Both of our parents had their own tables equally adjacent to ours."
Though it is tradition to have the couple's parents on either side of them at the top table of the wedding, it appears that Brooklyn and Nicola chose to have their grandmothers with them. Brooklyn's grandmother, Sandra, was on her own, as her ex-husband Ted came to the wedding with his new wife, Hilary, and Nicola's late grandmother attended on her own, as her husband had sadly passed away. The 26-year-old is famously very close with his granny, reportedly spending just as much time with both of his grandparents growing up as he did with David and Victoria, according to The Mirror.
I have been silent for years and made every effort to keep these matters private. Unfortunately, my parents and their team have continued to go to the press, leaving me with no choice but to speak for myself and tell the truth about only some of the lies that have been printed.
I do not want to reconcile with my family. I'm not being controlled, I'm standing up for myself for the first time in my life.
For my entire life, my parents have controlled narratives in the press about our family. The performative social media posts, family events and inauthentic relationships have been a fixture of the life I was born into. Recently, I have seen with my own eyes the lengths that they'll go through to place countless lies in the media, mostly at the expense of innocent people, to preserve their own facade. But I believe the truth always comes out.
My parents have been trying endlessly to ruin my relationship since before my wedding, and it hasn't stopped. My mum cancelled making Nicola's dress in the eleventh hour despite how excited she was to wear her design, forcing her to urgently find a new dress. Weeks before our big day, my parents repeatedly pressured and attempted to bribe me into signing away the rights to my name, which would have affected me, my wife, and our future children. They were adamant on me signing before my wedding date because then the terms of the deal would be initiated. My holdout affected the payday, and they have never treated me the same since. During the wedding planning, my mum went so far as to call me 'evil' because Nicola and I chose to include my Nanny Sandra, and Nicola's Naunni at our table, because they both didn't have their husbands. Both of our parents had their own tables equally adjacent to ours.
The night before our wedding, members of my family told me that Nicola was 'not blood and 'not family.' Since the moment I started standing up for myself with my family, I've received endless attacks from my parents, both privately and publicly, that were sent to the press on their orders. Even my brothers were sent to attack me on social media, before they ultimately blocked me out of nowhere this last Summer. My mum hijacked my first dance with my wife, which had been planned weeks in advance to a romantic love song. In front of our 500 wedding guests, Marc Anthony called me to the stage, where in the schedule was planned to be my romantic dance with my wife but instead my mum was waiting to dance with me instead. She danced very inappropriately on me in front of everyone. I've never felt more uncomfortable or humiliated in my entire life. We wanted to renew our vows so we could create new memories of our wedding day that bring us joy and happiness, not anxiety and embarrassment.
My wife has been consistently disrespected by my family, no matter how hard we've tried to come together as one. My mum has repeatedly invited women from my past into our lives in ways that were clearly intended to make us both uncomfortable.
Despite this, we still travelled to London for my dad's birthday and were rejected for a week as we waited in our hotel room trying to plan quality time with him. He refused all of our attempts, unless it was at his big birthday party with a hundred guests and cameras at every corner. When he finally agreed to see me, it was under the condition that Nicola wasn't invited. It was a slap in the face. Later, when my family travelled to LA, they refused to see me at all.
My family values public promotion and endorsements above all else. Brand Beckham comes first. Family "love" is decided by how much you post on social media, or how quickly you drop everything to show up and pose for a family photo opp, even if it's at the expense of our professional obligations. We've gone out of our way for years to show up and support at every fashion show, every party, and every press activity to show 'our perfect family'. But the one time my wife asked for my mum's support to save displaced dogs during the LA fires, my mum refused.
The narrative that my wife controls me is completely backwards. I have been controlled by my parents for most of my life. I grew up with overwhelming anxiety. For the first time in my life, since stepping away from my family, that anxiety has disappeared. I wake up every morning grateful for the life I chose, and have found peace and relief.
My wife and I do not want a life shaped by image, press, or manipulation. All we want peace, privacy and happiness for us and our future family.
Brooklyn and Nicola's wedding was the centre of conflict
The disputes weren't limited to the wedding planning, however, as the day itself reportedly had many shocking moments that left both guests and the couple feeling rather awkward.
In May 2025, sources spoke to People magazine and E! News about the moment that Brooklyn and Nicola's first dance was "hijacked" by his mother, Victoria. The couple thought that Marc Anthony, a friend of the Beckhams, was gifting them a live first dance performance, but instead, after Brooklyn took to the stage, the singer announced: "Please welcome to the stage the most beautiful woman in the room — Victoria Beckham."
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The moment reportedly left the bride in tears as she walked out of the room. In Brooklyn's statement, he backed up these testimonies, adding that his mother "danced very inappropriately on me in front of everyone. "
"I've never felt more uncomfortable or humiliated in my entire life," he concluded. There was also conflict surrounding his mother designing Nicola's dress, and Brooklyn alleged that his family sent him "endless attacks" on the night before the wedding.
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