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Liam Payne's relationship with Cheryl - and real reason for split

The late One Direction star, 31, had a two-year relationship with Cheryl, 41

Nichola Murphy
Deputy Lifestyle Editor
Updated: November 20, 2024
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Liam Payne died on Wednesday 16 October aged 31 after falling from the third floor of the Casa Sur Hotel in Argentina, leaving behind his girlfriend Kate Cassidy and his son Bear, whom he shared with his ex Cheryl Cole.  

The One Direction star, who is being laid to rest in a private funeral on November 20, and the Girls Aloud singer, 41, had a high-profile relationship from 2016 to 2018. Take a look inside Liam and Cheryl's love story, which began years after they first met on camera…

First meeting

Liam formed One Direction in 2010 alongside Niall Horran, Harry Styles, Louis Tomlinson and Zayn Malik © JAB Promotions
Liam shot to fame in boyband One Direction alongside Niall Horran, Harry Styles, Louis Tomlinson and Zayn Malik

Liam first auditioned for The X Factor in 2008 aged 14 in front of judges Simon Cowell, Dannii Minogue, Louis Walsh and Cheryl Cole. He wasn't successful the first time but returned two years later when his journey with boyband One Direction began.

It wasn't until ten years after that that the pair's friendship turned romantic, but Liam addressed their first meeting with Esquire in May 2020.

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"Let’s address the elephant in the room," he said while rewatching his first audition. "Obviously, the future mother of my son is sitting in that chair. This is now an episode of How I Met Your Mother, so that’s enough of that I think."

Couple debut

Cheryl in a pink dress with Liam Payne in a suit© Kristy Sparow
The couple made their debut at the Global Gift Gala

Cheryl was married twice before she began her relationship with Liam; first to Ashley Cole from 2006 to 2010 followed by Jean-Bernard Fernandez-Versini from 2014 to 2016.

She became reacquainted with Liam at The X Factor final in December 2015 and the couple – who have a 10-year age gap – made their red carpet debut as a couple at the Global Gift Gala in May 2016, where Cheryl took home the Global Gift Philanthropist Award.

Baby boy

liam payne baby bear born© Instagram
Baby Bear was born in 2017

Liam and Cheryl fuelled pregnancy rumours for weeks before Cheryl confirmed she was expecting in February 2017. She was pictured cradling her blossoming baby bump in a campaign between The Princes Trust and L'Oreal alongside Helen Mirren, Katie Piper and Louisa Johnson.

The following month, after just one year of dating, they welcomed their son Bear.

Confirming the happy news on Instagram, the 'Fight for this Love' singer shared a picture of doting dad Liam cradling his newborn and wrote: "On Wednesday 22nd March Liam and I became parents to an incredibly beautiful, healthy baby boy, weighing 7lb 9 and looking like a dream.

Liam Payne has died aged 31© Getty
Liam said becoming a father was "my favourite memory"

"Although he still doesn’t have a name he is already stealing hearts. We are all madly in love and overwhelmingly happy with our little arrival. Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers around the world. A day that now has a different meaning to me forever."

Liam shared his own heartfelt post that read: "My close friends and family know there are very few times when I’m left speechless… wow! I’m incredibly happy to welcome our new baby boy into the world.

"It’s a moment that I will never forget for the rest of my life and my favourite memory I have so far. I’m completely in awe of his incredible mother and how she has been the whole way through this, she’s really made my dreams come true."

Split

Cheryl and Liam attended the BRIT Awards together before they split© Getty
Cheryl and Liam attended the BRIT Awards together before they split in 2018

Bear was just one when the couple split in July 2018 following a two-year romance. The 'Strip That Down' singer announced the news on X, formerly Twitter, and confirmed they would continue to co-parent their son.

"Cheryl and I are sad to announce that we are going our separate ways. It’s been a tough decision for us to make," he penned.

"We still have so much love for each other as a family. Bear is our world and we ask that you respect his privacy as we navigate our way through this together."

Liam Payne's rise to fame and career timeline

Liam Payne in black t-shirt singing into microphone© NBC
  • 2008: Liam auditions for The X-Factor at 14 years old and is told to come back in two years by Simon Cowell. 
  • 2010: Liam returns to The X-Factor auditions and is placed in a group with Zayn Malik, Louis Tomlinson, Niall Horan and Harry Styles, forming One Direction. The band place third in the competition.
  • September 2011: One Direction's debut single, 'What Makes You Beautiful' goes to number one in the UK and around the world. Since then, the band have had 14 top ten hits in the UK and four number-one albums on the Billboard 200.
  • December 2011: Liam embarks on his first world tour with One Direction. 
  • November 2012: One Direction releases their second album, Take Me Home. 
  • August 2013: The band's documentary film One Direction: This Is Us, hit the big screen, with thousands of fans supporting the film at its premiere in London's Leicester Square. 
  • November 2013: One Direction releases their third album, Midnight Memories. 
  • December 2016: One Direction announce their indefinite hiatus.
  • May 2017: Liam releases his debut single, 'Strip That Down', in May. 
  • December 2019: Liam releases his first and only album, LP1, which reaches the top 20 in the UK.
  • March 2023: Liam releases a comeback single, 'Teardrops'. 
  • October 2023: Reports that Liam's second studio album has been put on hold.

In 2022, Liam suggested that becoming a father impacted his relationship with Cheryl. Addressing fellow fathers, he said on Logan Paul's Impaulsive podcast: "You don't know what is coming and it's different. 

"And to be honest with you, it ruined a relationship for me at that point but for all the right reasons. I was so excited for him to be born that I was actually worried if I wouldn't love him enough."

He also took the opportunity to praise Cheryl's parenting skills. "She is the best mum in the world. I couldn't ask for someone better," he said, adding: "We broke up for a reason and now she gives me full autonomy of my life and to do what I do and I know he's [Bear's] taken care of.

"He is all she cares about and I couldn't ask for more. They live like three minutes from my house. I always glue myself to where he is. My life now is his. My money is his. He's a lovely, lovely boy. We've been blessed."

Meanwhile, Cheryl confirmed their relationship did not end on bad terms, as she told The Sunday Times’ Style magazine that Liam was "the only man who has ever been faithful." Speaking of their son, she added: "I'm not looking for anything any more. I'm whole. I've got the man of my dreams."

Co-parenting Bear

cheryl in snowy trees with bear © Instagram
Cheryl keeps her son's identity private

Cheryl tends to keep her home life with Bear private, but she made a rare comment about their different parenting styles in 2019.

"[Liam is] much softer than me. But it is what it is, and I’m OK about it," she told The Telegraph. Speaking of co-parenting, she continued: "When you have a baby, you are not consumed with just thinking about yourself. It’s your responsibility to keep things settled and happy, so you make the best of everything. And we have."

The same year, Liam opened up about Bear's personality during an interview with Us.

Liam Payne's son Bear looking at a billboard of his dad© Instagram
Liam made some rare comments about co-parenting with Cheryl

"Sometimes he’ll sort of have a go at his mum and I’ll be like, ‘Bear, stop it.' He just wouldn’t listen to me today… He just wants to silence me with his hand. He’s like, 'Just give me a minute. I’m busy.'"

In 2023, Liam took a break from the public eye and later confirmed that he was six months sober following a 100-day stay at a treatment facility.

Gushing about Cheryl's support, he explained in a YouTube video: "More than anything, I want to say thank you to [Bear] and his mum for giving me a little bit of freedom to go and get well in that moment because I had to. 

"There’s no point trying to be a dad when you’ve got nothing to teach and I don’t think up until this point I really had much to say to him other than just caring for him very deeply and loving him deeply, which is obviously the most important thing."

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Cheryl's moving statement about Liam 

Liam Payne shirtless lying in bed with white sheets with baby son Bear © Instagram

Following her ex's tragic death, Cheryl took to Instagram to share a poignant statement, criticising the spreading of misinformation online and the use of intrusive photographs of the crime scene. 

Alongside a black-and-white photo of Liam in bed with their son, who was just a baby at the time, Cheryl wrote: "As I try to navigate this earth shattering event, and work through my own grief at this indescribably painful time, I'd like to kindly remind everyone that we have lost a human being. Liam was not only a pop star and celebrity, he was a son, a brother, an uncle, a dear friend and a father to our 7 year old son. A son that now has to face the reality of never seeing his father again.

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"What is troubling my spirit the most is that one day Bear will have access to the abhorrent reports and media exploitation we have seen in the past few days. It is breaking my heart further that I cannot protect him from that in the future. I am begging you to consider what use some of these reports are serving, other than to cause further harm to everyone left behind picking up the pieces. Before you leave comments or make videos, ask yourself if you would like your own child or family to read them."

Cheryl concluded: "Please give Liam the little dignity he has left in the wake of his death to rest in some peace at last. Thank you, Cheryl."

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